How to cancel HER:Lesbian&Queer LGBTQ Dating and get your money back
HER:Lesbian&Queer LGBTQ Dating is a Lifestyle app by Bloomer Inc. Canceling and getting refunded are two separate things — most people do the first and assume the second happens automatically. It doesn't.
Based on 50 of the most recent public App Store reviews, sampled September 2026.
Step 1 — Stop the next charge
- On iPhone or iPad: Settings → tap your name → Subscriptions.
- Select HER:Lesbian&Queer LGBTQ Dating → Cancel Subscription.
- Check that it now says Expires and not Renews. If it still says Renews, it is not canceled.
Deleting the app does not cancel the subscription. This is the single most common reason people keep getting charged.
Step 2 — Ask Apple for the charge back
Answer these and you'll get the exact wording to paste into Apple's form. Nothing is sent anywhere — it's generated in your browser.
You're not the only one
Recent 1–2★ reviews of HER:Lesbian&Queer LGBTQ Dating on the App Store, about billing:
HORRIBLE EXPERIENCE. FIRST MESSAGE WAS A CRYPTO SCAMMER ASKING ME FOR MONEY. I TROLLED THE SCAMMER AND TOLD THEM TO F OFF AND SEND ME THE BITCOINS AND I GOT PERMA BANNED IN 1 hours— HORRIBLE HORRIBLE VOMIT APP, GARBAGE— CONTACTING CUSTOMER SUPPORT DOES NOTHING GARBAGE— GARBAGE —GARBAGE —-GARBAGE. They LET THE SCAMMED GET ME BANNED. New USER EXPERIENCE >> INSTALL GARBAGE APP— GET CONTACTED BY BITCOIN SCAMMERS ASKING …
The focus on this app has become about making money, instead of helping people find love… you can’t do anything, but create a profile and swipe (w/ limits) — can’t do much without paying… we as people have to start pushing back against all this subscription BS and stop paying for it so they understand what the purpose is here… ridiculous! $15-19/wk or even $20-25 is WAY TOO MUCH, yall are way too GREEDY!!!
The app only shows me people that are 150 plus miles away along with what I am not looking for. I live in Pittsburgh should be more than enough potential matches.
Find every subscription that's still charging you
Forward your Apple receipt emails to one address. We pull out every active subscription, what it costs, and when it renews next — then warn you before each renewal instead of after.
Free while in beta. No account, no bank connection.
Questions
Can I get a refund after I already canceled HER:Lesbian&Queer LGBTQ Dating?
Yes. Canceling stops future renewals but does not refund a charge that already went through. You request that separately at reportaproblem.apple.com, and "I was charged after I canceled the subscription" is the reason to select.
How long do I have to ask for a refund?
Apple generally expects refund requests within 90 days of the charge. Ask as soon as you notice it — requests on recent charges are approved more often.
Apple declined my request. Is that the end?
No. A first decline is common and is often automated. You can submit the request again with more specific facts and ask for review by a senior advisor. If it is declined again, you can dispute the charge with your card issuer.
Will I lose access to HER:Lesbian&Queer LGBTQ Dating if I cancel?
You keep access until the end of the period you already paid for. Canceling only stops the next renewal.